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Private Messaging

If you've got tree-to-tree hints on your Findmypast family tree, you can contact other members about them. Here's everything you need to know.

  • How does Private Messaging work?
  • Is Private Messaging free – can everyone use it?
  • How do I send a Private Message?
  • How do I receive a Private Message – what happens?
  • What if I don’t want to message the other person?
  • What happens if I accept a Private Message request, but change my mind?
  • Will the person I messaged be able to see my real name?
  • I can’t see Private Messaging anywhere. Why don’t I have access to this feature?
  • Why have I not had a response to my Private Message?
  • Why can’t I contact the person I want to?
  • Do I need to opt in to Private Messaging?
  • What if I don’t want to be contacted by anyone?